Dear Felix,

I appreciate your time and eattention in the long detailed comment s for me. I feel the kindness in it. Thank you.

Yes, your opinion brightens me some point in my thinking. I am a woman, I am somewhat afraid of marrying a poor guy. But he care for me. During my last 38 years, no guys care for me. I google some cases which woman marrying poor husband, most sais it is not advisable. But in my case as a 38 years old, I am running out of time on fertility, and this single guy is my only choice at this time, I am considering. I will take your comments into consideration while waiting for my parents to change their mind or while waiting for things to work it our. Thanks again.