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  • #382636
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    Dear Anita,

    All is the same but much better as I come to accept the truth, I practice yoga and meditation to be calm again and I begin to be more acceptive to what happened to me.

    Now I dont think much, I just live and try to practice gratitude for what life bring to me.

    Thanks for your attention.

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    #380792
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    Dear Felix,

    I appreciate your time and eattention in the long detailed comment s for me. I feel the kindness in it. Thank you.

    Yes, your opinion brightens me some point in my thinking. I am a woman, I am somewhat afraid of marrying a poor guy. But he care for me. During my last 38 years, no guys care for me. I google some cases which woman marrying poor husband, most sais it is not advisable. But in my case as a 38 years old, I am running out of time on fertility, and this single guy is my only choice at this time, I am considering. I will take your comments into consideration while waiting for my parents to change their mind or while waiting for things to work it our. Thanks again.

    #380791
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    Dear Anita,

    Yes, you are right, I consider my life belong to my parents. Though I am 38, I cannot make my own decision as I worry my parents are sad about me. Anyway they just care for me, they are afraid I would suffer poverty when I marry that guy. Now my only solution is just to let time heal and wait to see if my parents change their mind.

    Thanks a lot Anita

    #380386
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    Dear Anita,

    He was so poor that  my parents prevent me from marrying him. They worry I will lead the rest of my life in poverty. So they think I am better off staying single.

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    #380342
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    I am in the same boat with you 38 and I also wanna kid. The rush pushed me into many drama I am experiencing now, which is unpleasant to endure, it is painful, ashamed, even guilty. Take your time. I have an aunt who got marriage and gave born to a very cute daughter at the age of 44. Take your time.

    #380139
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    Dear Anita,

    After a while of balancing a little bit, I think partly it is my not correct thinking more than social norm; I cannot forgive myself after the drama. At this age of 38, I think I should practice more acceptance and gratitude. After the event, I learnt a lot from that. After all, I think it is not completely a  bad luck. I think I will recover ok. Thanks a lot to Tinybuddha and you Anita.

    #380074
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks a lot, you are so kind and helpful. Luckily found this forum.

     

    Love

    #380018
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    Dear Nae,

    I think half a month since your post so I hope you are better with the break up. I am undergoing through break-up like you but hurt by physically. Before I also underwent spiritual hurt by breakup; it is all about thought; after 10 years looking back i feel it is silly of me; now i exerience physical hurt, i think spiritual hurt is not as painful. But with time, I think we will be ok. The best way for you and me now is to find something healthy to keep us busy not to vae time to think about break up

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    #380013
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    Dear Anagha,

    Yeah I know, hic, it is a concern to me. But I am not sure I will meet any single man later at my age :((

    Thanks a lot for your advice

    #380012
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    Dear Maria,

    I read with thanks. Thanks again, your consultation is of great help to me at this time.

    #380006
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    Dear Anita,

    I had been dating before, but i had been taught to keep the limit and i kept it to 38 years old. Recently at the age of 38 i am afraid it is too late to have normal healthy baby; for the sake of the future baby, i should try to overcome the social rule to have sex before marriage. I thought the guy is sure to be my husband,as i have been looking for a single guy for too long (at my age there are hardly anyone). At that time i just think of that. And i want to be a mother so much, i even think single mom is ok. I admire those who chose to be single mom. They dare to live their life. We planned about wedding ceremony when the break up happened, which made me shocked and did not know what to do next. I know at this age i should be responsible for my life, but i feel not ok. I am afraid social norm will not accept my immature thought and deed. i still feel ashamed and guilt, as i could not controlled myself well at that time to let that happened. I know i cannot turn back the time but i am quite not confident as previous to begin any new relationship

    #379951
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    Dear Maria,

    Thanks a lot for your useful material. I will work on it. I hope with time I will have enough capability to transform the bad emotions into positive ones. Thanks again for your kindness. You are really helpful

    #379950
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    Dear Anita,

    I was touched by your attentive consultation. To tell the truth it is ok a little bit after your consultation, but I am still in a feeling of guilt.I blame myself why at this mature age I let that shameful thing happened…hic. I am quite conservative, and I approve of those who dare to live, but when it my turn, I am so weak… Now i just hope time will heal, and I will try to read more constructive stuffs to help me

    Thanks again Anita

    #379217
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    Dear Tanita,

    I feel so gratitude for your time and kindness in helping me. I feel better with youe sweet consultation. You really understanding and attentive and helpful. Thanks and I wish you health and prosperity to help more people. Thank you

    #379203
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    I earn money ok for a single life, but my family worried i will live in hell marrying that guy

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