Anita,

Thank you for your sources provided. The female who accused him of assault is not in the military. I definitely understand where you are coming from, and it’s not like I never considered the fact that he could have actually committed the crime I just truthfully believe based off of the finer details that I have knowledge of that he didn’t do what this person has claimed.  The fun and fear co-existing translates to essentially making the best of/ trying to live it up before there is no longer something to live for. K is also fairly close to my family and for him to share what is going on with him during down times at least with my brother who has had a somewhat similar situation is kind of big and something I don’t think he would do if he weren’t being 100%. I think about it pretty often how I am dating someone who has potentially done such an awful thing it’s one of the least expected situations I would have ever imagined myself in. I am 10000% about women’s empowerment and would not have ever imagined myself supporting the suspect in a case like this. It makes me feel bad myself as I worry about the way people perceive me and I don’t want people to think I’m terrible for still supporting K/ not believing the girl.

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