Dear Sofioula:

I am sorry you had such a disappointing experience. It is a common practice for men to “love bombing (a woman, so) to have sex early on”-  you have to be careful and watch for this practice at its early stages.

I understand your anger at him. The love-bombing practice is dishonestly manipulative and it hurts women all over the world: it hurts when the men are successful, but it also hurts when they are not successful, because love bombing causes women to hope and dream. And then, get terribly disappointed.

I think that not having any contact with him whatsoever (and learning from this experience) is your best revenge, don’t you think?

anita