Dear sossi:

I am sorry that you didn’t enjoy your holiday break.. that “hasn’t really been a break at all”.

Regarding your anxiety about getting older, guys not paying attention to you anymore because you are older (44)- keep in mind that lots of young women don’t get the attention they crave, for various reasons, and lots of young women who do get attention- get attention from the wrong guys, and suffer from it. I think that we forget, as older women looking back- how life wasn’t that great when we were young!

At 44 and older, there are many women who meet decent men and get into loving relationships, for some- it happens for the first time in their lives. It is possible for you too. How possible (what are the chances), I don’t know. But if you are clear about what you want/ what kind of man you are interested in, you are more likely to find the one decent man that will make a significant positive change in your life, as you will make in his.

anita