Hi Anita,

its always refreshing to hear back from you.

“I asked him to continue doing our long distance relationship like any other couple but he said that this is not love..“- it is his right to reject your offer of a LDR.- i totally understand and agree with you , its just caused me a confusion because prior to the breakup we used to agree on this ( do LDR for the next 3-4 years) but i guess there was a change of heart and thats fine…

“I feel guilty because I agreed to stay friends and see where the future might take us both“- this doesn’t sound like a break up, and.. why be friends with a person who says ugly words to you and who guilt trips you? – good question, well the rational behind it is that we thought that we first were best friends before being in a relationship and genuinely thought that we could keep this good thing alive between us..

“I have the confusion of whether this break up was right“- like I suggested above, I don’t think you broke up with him yet.- so how would you define a break up ? and how would you approach it while you are still confused about whether you exaggerated the reasons that led to the break up or if they were valid?

“Now the single life looks scary as the dating seen completely sucks, as I have been hearing from friends and family when it comes to their experiences”- your personal experience with dating can be way better than your friends’ and family’s, if you do it right. (I have dating advice if you are interested). – i truly hope so , given that im not someone who is really good at showing emotion and i tend to be an over-thinker and a realist most of the time.Plus, im genuinely interested to hear your advice/advises.

cheers,

Natie

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