Dear TeaK,

Thank you once again for ur advices.

As you have mentioned those 3 advices, and after reading it i agree with you… that those tips might help me change the way i’m thinking of myself… into a more positive way.

I think i’ll start with creating a positive image and trying physical exercise in my housing complex that i mentioned before.

And do u think i’ve had this hobby of laying lazy in my room due to my parents keep relieving me from duties?

I also believed that my self confidence issue isnt only caused my parents, but also rather due to the opinion of most girls in my highschool days… like their “criteria” on boys (which is taller than them, etc)… i always keep their opinion in mind…  I’m also answering this question below that you asked me a few months ago.

Should i not think too much of this issue, as it applies the same as most of the issue on the previous threads regarding my insecurity?

• “It also seems you feel injustice about the whole situation – so were there any instances where you were judged unfairly, while someone else in your family, perhaps a sibling, had it much easier without really deserving it?
• I am asking you this because this kind of self-rejection could be caused by a childhood wound, and if so, it’s crucial that you become aware of that wound…“