Hello Anita sorry our messages crossed.

I just added something because I wanted to share some messages. I don’t know if you saw it, it was the message before your answer.

I think yes because she also need to prepare. And perhaps for someone in depression, even if I don’t know her level, would be some pression.

Yes I wanted to leave some time no talking about her decision (about 3 weeks). But now I will reconnect with her. I will tell her and that I am considering to take a room. After it will be up to her to offer differently. It is not a good idea to share same bed for now. She did for friends but as we have an history it’s different. And you are right that telling her to not feel pressure is good help. I know she is the kind of person who wouldn’t let someone outside.

Yes it’s just a small 1 bedroom with just kitchen. It would maybe a possibility to bring a sleeping bag and air matress and sleep in the kitchen. Staying together would be more time to develop, talk.. But she also may need some time alone.