Hello anita

Yes I had the idea from the beginning anyway. I would also say an excuse. But I guess it’s also good that we talk at least.
Not only for my stuff. But mostly it’s making space for her. And it was an issue from the past relationship. It was so much things. I was filling space, she doesn’t have a lot of space for her. Most furnitures are busy. So it will sooth her in that way already.
If it goes well, I might offer her walking, coffee, drink or dinner. She also may offer dinner.

Yes I won’t. She could feel it that I really value. Even if she offer me otherwise. It would be  the real good thing I do. With the negative she remember from me. I didn’t tell all my issues. But one example was for example to leave her alone. And rather travel the world, forget about her.

It could be quite more regarding the volume of things to organise. See it more like flat moving. It would even require a second visit.
I know she is expecting some aspects. Stability and maturity was for example essential in her mind. And for some she will see the difference in minutes (word from a friend). It’s almost like you see some before/after picture. She knew me as of january 2020 and she perfectly remember how I was. We mostly talked by text since this time. And that’s what is blocking now because she has me in memory from what she knew of me. She needs to feel safe and that I changed enough in her perspective. I agree I can’t show everything. Especially some that can be seen in the couple. But if I bring her some part of the solution and she sees concrete things, more attention, support, listening to her.. she may think about it. In any case if things get well, she would require time. Or at least further date. I will be present for her without being in demand.