* Dear natalee:

“what should I do?“- I say: (1) Make a promise to yourself to never again send nude photos online (full or partial) .. to anyone! (2) Make another promise to yourself: to never again cheat on a boyfriend in any way, and (3) Talk to your ex, apologize (again) to him for having flirted with the old crush and having sent that photo. Tell him how much you regret it and that you promised yourself #1 and #2 above. Then ask him how he feels about you. After he answers you, tell him that you want to continue talking the day after. During this break from talking, think about your next move. If you want, you can post here again,  let me know what he said, and we can discuss it further.

anita