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Dear TeaK,

Thank you once again for ur reply.

 

I need some advice regarding my bachelor graduation which is next month, the graduation will be conducted online. I suddenly feel regret for the bachelor that i took, i took business management which most people considered as the easiest of the business majors in my campus…. I didnt think twice few years ago, as what i think is that in the end i’ll have to go back and continue my parents business… i just took the easiest path. I could’ve took economics and finance but i didnt… it’s one of the most difficult majors in my campus…. I feel regret because i know i’m smart enough to take that major…. It was 2018 back then….
I feel so regret, most of my friends who doesnt care for their grades took that major… and most people will saw me as the same boat as them…. Because i believe some of my friends will post congratulations for me on their social media.. even my parents will post it.

This’ll be my bachelor degree for the rest of my life… and people in my country will view me as someone lazy who gets an easy bachelor….

This is my final degree because i decided that i“ll not take masters after discussing with my parents….

 

Regarding this:

“For now, you can’t do 2, 3, or 4, due to covid, but you can do 1. So keep doing and expanding 1, i.e. things you can do from your home.“

= After discussing with parents, we decided that i  shouldnt take masters, along with the part time jobs and try living on my own… and i agree with it… we discussed for three straight days….

 

How should i let go of the regret on taking that bachelor degree?

And also as i wont took masters and not gonna live away from my parents… How should i focus on my achievments? Is it to take a more difficult task in the company? And continue on working out and learning languages?