Short update:

Recently I contacted her after 3 weeks of silence about getting back my property that she has (all online). Apparrently the time apart from me and close to him has only made things worse. Not only she refused to give back what’s mine, she told me to stay away from her life entirely and managed to disrespect and emotionally abuse me again. At the same time she tried to get the former “friend” to “deal” with me right off the bat (which I avoided).