Dear Lindsey:

“My parents went out of state for my dad’s birthday and sent lots of pictures to my siblings and I.  They saw Eric Clapton in concert and maybe Cher? I wasn’t clear.  I feel guilty that I was looking at the photos and thinking wow.  Your daughter is sitting in her home with a messed up car, in her pj’s going to bed at 8pm, dealing with a psycho ex and girlfriend, hating her job, etc.”-

-when your parents get sick and die, at least you’d know, as you know now, that they took very good care of themselves, having themselves as their first priority, not wasting their time with worries about you. So, don’t spend your time worrying about them.. they can be counted on to do what’s right for them.

Also, there’re way worse things than being in your PJ’s going to bed at 8 pm.. such as staying up at night following a botched cosmetic breast operation: “I’ve had my breasts done. But my breast operations were a nightmare… They were really botched in every way. If anything, they were worse after than before”, Cher (loser weekly.com/ cher- plastic- surgery, May 21, 2020).

Let me know how it goes with your car, your job, your “psycho ex and girlfriend”, etc. Will you?

anita