Yeah for sure! So I brought it up and said something along the lines of ” hey so are you ever going to stay a weekend here?” and she said something like “ok yeah I feel bad about leaving but I didn’t want to bring it up”. and we talked it out a little and I made sure to emphasize that I understood that it is an awkward position for her to be in and I get it but that it’d be nice to hang out on the weekends. She said that when he comes here for the weekend she doesn’t have to stay over there and that we could hang more but like whenever we make plans when he’s here its like really short. It’ll be like we plan to go to a fall festival and we could only be there for like an hour because they made plans to get lunch. so I said maybe like doing stuff for more than a hour lol? that’s basically the conversation we had a while ago..