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  • #363079
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    Thank you so much that was very helpful! I agree I shouldn’t feel the need to justify myself if I feel bad vibes from someone! I will definitely see if my friends can help me in the bf department! lol

    #363012
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    No that was definitely very helpful. Thank you!! I will definitely try some dating apps, what is a good app to start with, tinder?

    #362978
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    Well for one guy, I just got kinda nervous about dating. the other one grew from a great friendship to a toxic relationship so I just never dated him.

    #362927
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    i have with a couple. what was different was that I was friends with them before. Our personalities mixed well. We just had really good convos.

    #362924
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    well the thing is that the one who drove to my house never asked to come over and I didn’t personally give him my address. Maybe i do tend to be guarded when it comes to dating but the guys who ask me out just aren’t my type just because of that clingy/creepy vibe.

     

    #362919
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    yes. So in my experiences the guys who have expressed interest in me just come off way too strong to the point where its creepy. I had one literally drive to my house and he sat in his car and texted me he was outside. Like WHAT?? Also just weird staring and awkward/off putting conversations with others.

    #362860
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    for sure! so first you want to click “forums” on the menu above, then choose the topic you want to write on for example “tough times”, click on the topic. Then scroll all the way down and there is a empty writing space for you to title and write. Finally click submit and wait!

    #350650
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    Not sure yet but probably like marketing management

    #349114
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    Do you think I owe him friendship after all the ghosting and coming in and out of my life? Like if he came back and texted like what should I do? Should I give him another chance at the cost of looking possibly desperate and lonely? Should I just never respond? Or should I kind of tell him off? Like I’m not sure how to continue on.

    #347986
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    Wow, I’ve made a couple posts on this site, and this has been the best real advice I’ve gotten. Thank you so much. These are really crazy times and I’m so thankful for a site like this. Sending good health and safety. Thank you again!

    #326337
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    There could be Im not sure what the connection does to my though. I think if anything my parent’s dating has served as an example for what to watch out for/ look for & etc

    #326243
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    I definitely have become more outgoing than where I was as a kid, but I still take a while to warm up to people. It is kind of frustrating because I seem to attract a certain type that I just do not see myself ever going out with, I get frustrated because my options are not what I want in someone. I’m sure its not just me but that seems to be what I’m getting rn, I used to get flirty interactions with people I actually liked but I think one person misread where I was at and kind of took advantage and I think I just sectioned myself off and started dressing more baggy/ frumpy to not draw attention to my body, which honestly I regret that I did that to myself. Recently though I’ve wanted to dress cuter for school but now that people see me in leggings and a hoodie all the time it draws attention to my body that I’m not 100% happy with. I just want to take care of myself and put myself out there more. And that guy it was a just talking kind of thing, like we were flirting back and forth and told each other our feelings and he got more with benefits on me and I was uncomfortable with that. I am trying to kinda get back out there relationship wise and friend wise because I have secluded myself unfortunately. I think I have fun with new people naturally and make a good impression but when it comes to like romantic stuff I’m cool over text and call but in person I work myself up and kind of freak out and panic.

    #321981
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    1. At my moms house its me, my mom, and her fiance

    2. She just moved out to an apartment, she tells me that I still have time to lose weight before shopping for my dress for my moms wedding. I see her couple times a week.

    3. I didn’t go to school friday because I woke up extremely sad and stressed. I was getting in my car crying from all the stress I had and my mom was like just stay home, and I tried talking to her but she didn’t really like get it, she kinda made it seem like I was stressed like any other day.

    #321975
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    Its gotten better, its just sometimes they are just so stressed from work that I suppress my feelings to enjoy the moment, and not turn it into some depressing convo that would end up with me crying, I just feel so overwhelmed with my own feelings that i have bottled up, and then I have a crap ton of work to do, And no one to talk to. Im just not sure what I can or should do. As for my grandma, she is just always going to be critical, and I think thats something I resent her for.

    #214489
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    Thanks for all of the good advice! Where I said i had only flirted with like 3 guys, and that it didn’t go so well. Nothing intimate really happened, just kind of goofing off, just like flirting when talking. One of them was this constant on and off thing but i see it as toxic and want better for myself. The other guy was this guy that I didn’t really have interest in but he had interest in me. Then guy 3 was kind of like this person i was always annoyed by since 6th grade, it was playful teasing, then last year i switched into his class he and i immediately connected and it was crazy we couldn’t stop texting and then the first guy kinda barged his way into my life and i lost touch with 3. This all happened last year but, I guess Im at this point where I don’t get any action. Like it seems like everytime theres a guy in my life theres a problem. Nothing seems to go right, so right now I guess im feeling kinda screwed over by love, lol. And i know, i dont want to force my way into some guy. I guess im wondering why i attract bad situations with guys, and how to put myself out there? How to flirt and not seem utterly ridiculous?

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