Dear TheNovaStarr,

I’ve heard of a term “twin flames” and at some point believed it was a very important concept. But over time, I’ve realized that it’s an overrated concept. Because often time it’s a distraction for people to believe that once they find their twin flame, they will be finally happy and fulfilled. It will solve all their problems. You seem to believe similarly:

So my main driving factor of keeping myself from quite literally ending it all this past year has been the ‘promise’ from guides that I would meet them [my twin flame] within the first month of arriving on campus. It has not happened yet, and every time I ask via tarot card, It keeps telling me ‘oh yes it will happen soon’, but it just keeps getting delayed and it makes me feel like this whole reunion is just being dangled in front of my face as a mockery. Especially since my life is already going to shit and is beyond my literal control.

This whole situation has been making me slowly lose hope in life because I am no longer seeing the point in hoping when it is proven with nothing.

Going on top of all this, this week I had major major signs that the whole reunion was going to happen, and up until last night it really did seem like it was going to. I started to regain hope in life, and I was genuinely happy. But then for whatever reason, this morning all signs just pointed towards no it won’t. I am just so lost and I do not know what to do anymore beside just completely give up on everything.

You feel your life is pointless and “going to shit”, and you are hoping that meeting your twin flame would make it better. That it would give you meaning and hope. The truth is that nobody can “save” us, not even our twin flame. We need to first save ourselves. And you can do that by working on yourself and your issues..

What sticks out to me as a potential problem, which causes you pain and hopelessness is this:

• My step mother died
• Because of my step mothers death, most of my family completely dropped me

If you would like to share some more about your family and how come that after your stepmother’s death, “they completely dropped you”, please do so…