Dear Lindsey:

Keep going with the legal stuff in regard to the ex with the goal being making your life as a co-parent easier, as easy and smooth as possible.. and making your kids’ lives better for it!

In regard to Marty, so glad that you are talking to someone.. so normal. Good thing. It is possible that part reason why you are not anxious about him is that you are still on vacation. Let me know of any developments with Marty: let’s say you get distressed and you are just about to act or react to him in a way that you may later regret: talk to me first, tell me about it, will you?

anita