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Dear Lindsey:

He sounds suspicious, like he is suspecting you of trying to hurt him, or trying to make him feel bad and get him into a bad situation..  in the following ways: (1) “trying to rush (him) into a relationship” when he is not ready for one, (2) trying to trick him into a relationship by asking him “to see a picture of (your) dog“, (3) trying to get him into a rushed relationship with a woman who lacks judgment, as she “wants to get into another relationship quickly“, (4) trying to get him into a rushed relationship with a controlling woman who tells him what to do and pressures him: “I gave some recommendations for movies when his car was in the shop and he said I was telling him what to watch… when he feels pressure he gets rude.  He says he felt pressure when we went to dinner“, (5) trying to get him into a relationship with a woman who is “probably talking to multiple guys“, (6) trying to get him into a relationship with a woman who is telling him that he is insulting, telling him that other men are better looking: “When I would not send a photo of my ex to him he said that it’s because my ex is better looking“, (7) trying to frustrate him sexually (if I understand correctly): “He said once you start kissing and other things it leads to sex right then.  There is no ‘messing around‘”.

Inspired by the words in the movie Forrest Gump, I say: RUN LINDSEY, RUN!

anita