Dear Lindsey:

Try to not worry about getting flustered easily, about struggling with what to say or do when you talk with him and spend time with him. Try to be okay with believing that you “not great with this healthy dating thing so far“- you can learn and seems like he likes you just the way you are.  He probably wants to help you to feel more comfortable, so tell him what worries you: he’ll probably be glad to help you feel better, it will probably make him feel good about himself, if he can help you!

“I’m not going to sleep with him anytime soon and I’m proud I did not allow that last night because it probably could have happened“- some men would take advantage of a woman who looks and sounds insecure. I am glad he didn’t!

anita