Dear Anonymous:

It is interesting: when I read in your original post, at the point where I read that she told you that she has a boyfriend, my first thought was that it was a lie.  In your second post I read that you suspect this as well. Overall, reads to me that she is not doing well mentally, that she did not try to mess with you by giving you contradictory messages, but that she is confused herself.

But be careful: you fell in love with her, and therefore, you are inclined to think ways that will give you hope for a relationship with her.

anita