Dear Ken:

Also, it is important that when you are in a relationship with a boyfriend, that you don’t expect to feel love at all times. No one feels love for another person 24/7, or all waking hours, not even close to that amount of time. The feeling of love comes and goes like any other feeling. He does not feel love for you all the time either.

Don’t keep checking if you feel it or not- it doesn’t matter. What matters is that you act in loving ways, that what you say and do is not harmful, but helpful to the one you love.  It doesn’t benefit your boyfriend that you feel love for him at this moment or at that moment. What benefits him are your loving words and loving actions.

anita