Hi Anita,

Thank you for replying.

1. I did basically tell him that he’ll find some other woman. I knew it wouldn’t be me. I should’ve left because he had explained that it wouldn’t be me a long time ago. But then his actions and his words would make it seem like he could also see me as his wife. So I kept thinking that he was thinking about it.

2. I was interested. I felt like we could have a fun, mutually respectful life together.

3. I do feel like I bring up some things later rather than addressing them right when they happen. Like if I get upset over something he said, I just quiet and then maybe will bring it up after a day or two. But I don’t think I dwell on the past or the negative. I’m just trying to understand it. I don’t try to make feel guilty, I think that’s just him.

4. I didn’t stalk him or chase but I guess I kept in contact and I shouldn’t have done that. I removed him from social media but we still had one channel of communication.

5. I don’t know. I think he may be brought up that way where he has to always prove himself or where love and respect is kind of earned in his family. I don’t know to be honest. I think he just finds me frustrating because I won’t let him go and he wants to focus on finding someone he can actually make his wife but I hold him back and he feels guilty because of it and then angry and resentful towards me.