Anita

I did eventually call him that evening because I couldn’t take it any more of him not replying to my texts.  I was surprised he answered.   I asked him if he was ok and how he was doing. He asked me what was up. I told him I was waiting to talk to him.   He said he is just really tired and was trying to unwind by playing a game on his phone .  He proceeded to tell me how irritated it is when customers come in the place he works at last minute when they are about to close.  They have him working 7 days a week unless he asks for a day off.   He was also saying it’s everything all piling up at once.  He said he needs his license back and he’s tired of working a dead end job.  I told him I meant what I said via text that I’m here for him and how much I love him.  I told him I can come see him tomorrow night and he said ok.  I asked him if we are ok and he said yeah he guesses but yeah we are ok.  I told him I loved him and he said it back to me. He wanted to get back to his game to unwind and then go to bed.    After our conversation I still felt uneasy .   I guess once I see him and talk to him more things will he ok I hope. Then I texted him before I went to bed.  I told him I was going to sleep and that I loved him and to have a good night.  He read it but didn’t respond.  Him not responding made feel uneasy    I don’t like feeling like that at all.   When I see him how do I ask him to open up to me without pushing him away or making him feel even worse.