Hi Anita
I was never neglected or rejected as a child.  I came from a very loving home.
my question to you is how do I go about talking to him to get him to open up to me without me coming off as annoying and without pushing him away.  I want to help him.  I do truly love him and care about him.  I want him to get closer to me again.  I’m just numb and don’t know how to understand any of this.  I don’t understand how a person can go from wanting  a relationship to not being sure of wanting one in a matter of seconds and being depressed.