I also agree that there are serious problems within my ex’s and I’s relationship that will probably never get resolved. But the issues I have seen so far with the new guy really aren’t that big of deal compared to my ex, I am just being a sensitive. It wasn’t that big of a deal that he walked further up the trail because I was in fact with my friend, not alone. And I can see how he wanted to go get coffee really bad because I’m the same way sometimes. Those are minuscule problems that won’t ruin our relationship like alcohol and lack of affection.