Anita-

Very good point. I will bring this up with Jason.  Financial discussions are a must it looks like in relationships.  This is all new to me.

Something else happened yesterday.  I found out from my kids that they are staying with my parents Wednesday-Saturday of our spring break in 2 weeks.  I am just finding out about this and it was planned a month ago. My ex reached out to my dad and gave the invite.  My ex’s family is driving down to Florida the previous Friday-Tuesday to go to Disney. The plans are my ex would drop the kids off sometime that Tuesday night.

I had an argument with both my parents off and on yesterday.  This morning I sent a message to them saying the children are coming home with me on Wednesday -they are not staying in Florida. I also sent a message to my ex saying the kids needed to be returned to me by Wednesday and they will not be staying with my parents.

5 minutes after I sent that text to my ex pulls up to drop off baseball equipment to my son with his girlfriend. Now-the divorce paperwork outlines he cannot come into my neighborhood-he must park in the vet’s parking lot next to my neighborhood. Now-this was purposely done I’m sure because of my message.  I am thinking about getting a temporary restraining order.  I know that sounds extreme but it’s the only way I know to make him follow our divorce paperwork and I will also have it on file for the future.

Lindsey