@anita

Thank you for sharing that experience with me!

I think it is similar to how I’m feeling about another situation.

Essentially, I was taken in by a family when I left my biological family. They have been like a family to me. However, the family isn’t healthy and there is always a lot of arguing between various family members.

I do my best to keep a distance from it, but I’m not always successful. I feel like it would be easier for me if I didn’t have contact with them. But, I care and so I stay even though it causes pain. It is hard to say when something is too much.

Objectively, they will continue their behaviour whether I am involved or not. I don’t believe they will change any time soon.

• This reply was modified 2 years, 8 months ago by Helcat.