Dear Tobi:

Only six days ago, you wrote about her: “she’s really thoughtful and honest” (April 23) and now, she is a liar (“Probably she made up those exes“), a post-break up change in your evaluation of her.

You are welcome and I want to further encourage you to no longer contact her, her family and friends. I don’t think that it is a good idea for you and her friend (the ex you mentioned) to be in contact further and to gossip about her. Please remember how very nice she was to you (“she was very nice to me“) and wish her well as you let her go and make your life better and better.

anita