Hi Dude
No people don’t usually experience similar circumstances. There is a reason why this experience makes everyone but you uncomfortable.
There were cameras involved this immediately suggests two things a) a sexual connotation b) bullying. Attempting to coerce him by offering money to bounce directly reinforces these connotations.
What happened was wildly inappropriate. I don’t think that he will ever forget it.
That being said, this is the first time you have expressed remorse about what happened. Finally understanding the harm caused however painful is a step in the right direction.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 