Hi Stargazer!

Have you spoken to your partner about the concerns you shared about marriage, children and your lack of experience? Have you told him that you are scared?

I think the thing with alcohol is that it tends to reduce boundaries and inhibitions, but not get rid of them completely. There is a reason you kissed and nothing more. I don’t think what happened meant something with the individual, but within the context of your relationship it tells me that there is something going on that needs to be discussed.

It’s also concerning that you have been with this partner since you were 16. Depending on the country and when you were sexually active, in some countries it would be considered statutory rape. Myself, I was not really ready for sexual activity even at 18.