Hi Stargazer

It is reassuring that you are from a country where the age difference at the start of rt your relationship was legal. I’m glad to hear that your partner didn’t cheat on you, that the difficulty was minor and that he has been a great partner since.

So these feelings you had previously doubting the relationship were linked to your parents divorce? Can you tell me more about how your parents divorce is affecting you?

It might be important to discuss the impact of the divorce with your partner as well as everything else so that your partner can support you.

Can I ask, is there a reason for why you haven’t yet communicated all of these things with your partner?

It’s entirely possible that similarly to how you responded, your partner would quickly get over this incident of flirting with and kissing a stranger on holiday.

I think that people have done far worse things in relationships. It’s good that there has been a positive outcome in that it has rid you of doubts about your partner.