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lindsey
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Dear Anita,

I have been meaning to message you all week.  It has been very hectic with work and mostly home. I had 2 days of arguing and conflict with Jon but I have set up tutoring for Ella at Sylvan learning center.  She completed an assessment last week and is reading at a 3rd grade level. (she is in 5th grade).  Her teacher stated she is in the 30% for her grade.  It has been a nightmare.  At first Jon did not want to enroll her in tutoring.  He went back and forth from not having the money to her sticking with 1 day a week tutoring at his house and then all of this was his recommendation and that I should have set all of this up way before now.

As of this morning I have set up a payment plan with him paying for half monthly.  I had her set up for Tuesday & Thursdays from 6-7pm and Saturdays 10-12pm.  We would have started this Saturday.  He already texted me this morning saying Ella could not attend because they are going out of town this Saturday  So now I am calling Sylvan and changing her schedule to attend tutoring on my days only.  I think that in an effort to control some part of everything Jon is changing or cancelling appointments at the last minute.

I am trying to get involved in more committee’s at work. ( requesting to be a member of our mentoring program, Diversity & Inclusion, and Engagements with community service)  I am struggling with other employees on my team and in my department having poor work quality but continued to move up (all of them around 30)

All is good with Jason.

Lindsey