Hi Eric

I don’t see a problem with asking if a mooncake is homemade or what flavour it is. I expect that those questions would be asked all the time.

This seems much worse to you because of your anxiety and fear of judgement. So the problem isn’t really what happened. It is important to understand that your anxiety is the cause of your fears and take steps to reduce your anxiety. I would suggest going to the gym. Try not to worry and when you are feeling better make some plans for what to say when you pick up the moon cake.