I will add that I do think interacting with this seller of mooncakes is a good step for you. It is very good practice communicating with someone that you are attracted to. Doing so in person, in a structured way, at your leisure. It gives you plenty of time to plan ahead and work around some of the issues that you have been experiencing in unplanned meetings with women. As I said before, you are full of good ideas. Well done!

I think taking this step is worthy of praise. I’m curious what you would like to say to her?

Personally, I am imagining purchasing the mooncake. Thanking her, maybe some small talk about mooncakes or celebration plans. Asking how she is?