Dear marie:

You are welcome, and you are right: you deserved a warning, definitely- so to soften the blow. I wouldn’t use the word betray to describe what they did, more like they disappointed you, they didn’t do right by you. I wish they apologized for that.

Generally, we people do disappoint each other once in a while, wish we didn’t.. but we do, and within reason we should forgive each other: not for betrayals but for disappointments. What do you think?

anita