Dear Anita

How have you been today?

As you requested how I responded her questions. Go through blow.

Thank you for your kindness questions that you ask and allow me to quote them here

Do our values align?
Yes they do aligned with similarities below;
1. You are Caring and soft-hearted. U are really soft hearted, I mean, u care for people I don’t even know, and u care about other people’s needs over your own, sometimes to the extreme though…..u have been under my observation.

2. You are intelligent and I’m. U don’t sound arrogant to others but u really smart, like, u only.

3. You have a sense of humor and I do. I know that sounds cliche, but senses of humor are severely lacking in our world, especially self humor, my sister says it’s good to make fun of yourself sometimes, it gives you perspective.

4. Considerate. Again, not trying to sound arrogant, but u have a tendency to put others ahead of mean, for no reason.

5. You are a good listener, I mean, even though u ’ve been going through ur own struggle with dilemma, u ’ll happily stop to listen to your troubles and see the need of someone who need your consent.

U ‘ve a hrt of humanity through trying to give a love to someone that really want u in his life. U support others, u are an extremely loyal person.

“Does our parenting rhyme or will it be full of conflicts?”

Our parenting doesn’t rhyme but practically I have learned how to lived with different perpetrated people on earth. I believed I will continue to love you, even if it happen to divorce me and come back for me, you will always have a room or chance to come back to me and still love you till the day I kiss the cup of death.

You say again will it be full of conflicts?

My answer is No.

I’m not a fan of conflicts.

Do you hold on to negative family/marital/parenting stereotypes?

Apparently at my age mommy, I’m not an importer of words and I don’t run away from family affairs. If there’s any problem between the family I take a initiative to solve it.

Are you all talk but no action when it comes to the real deal in future?

I optimistic to put myself into practice and demonstrate my promises and words into action.

Can I rely on you to not change but instead uphold currently shared values? As my wife you are absolutely have right to rely on me.

So long I have chosen you as my wife , perhaps there’s no any obligation of not relying on me as your husband.

Should I buy into the notion that all SSDnese men are not reliable and I should just settle for an average home and family as he breaks every rule while I am supposed to stay faithful?

Not all men are in the same oceans neither the girls too. Me personally I’m self-reliance. I’m more serious with our relationship and I’m done that I don’t need anything again further. I’m settle

Are there negative aspects of his character that are currently hidden or that I have simply not identified well?

In case I hide myself then you can still trace it out later and time will tell out.

Things like these

Do you know why everyone like me most?

I’m not superman mommy but I tried to be unique person.

*I’m just a normal guy but what makes me special……. is trustworthy,  you can trust me with not only your future but your life too mommy*!!! I’m hard working, self-reliance and confident in my abilities to succeed.