Hi Anita,

I decided I deserve more than what I am getting from this situation.  He told me yesterday he is taking her & the grown children to Florida for a week and I told him not to contact me any longer, yes it is painful except if he wanted he would leave and not keep me on the back burner.  It’s my fault for staying as long as I have.  I need to be strong enough not to respond if he does call or text which I feel he will. All of his children range from 27 to 43. He said they wouldn’t understand if he moved out. All they are about is being taken care of & $$$.

Thank you for any advice.