Dear Rhonda:

Something new occurred to me in regard to this: “My boyfriend also has a daughter born in Arizona he’s about to get custody of, and I worry he’s faking everything with me to use me like he used a lot of other people…  In December the court approves of or denies whether he will get her or not…  his daughter is special needs.. She’s currently 7 months old and can’t crawl because of her issues”-

– his motive to get custody of his 7-months-old disabled daughter may be the SSI (Supplementary Security Income) monthly payments that she will be eligible for if he has custody of her, for the duration of more than 17 years, monthly payments that he will be in charge of. Plus he may be eligible to be paid monthly as his daughter’s caretaker (even if you are the one taking care of her),paid by SSI, or by another State Program.

anita