Dear Kaya:

I hope your afternoon gets better, Kaya!

“If you have this much a complaint about me, tell me.  Seems very kind and nice but behind my back, stabbing me. Thinking what did I do or what caused this problem?“- you shared that there’s been lots of fighting between his parents when he was growing up and that currently, he is living with his controlling, abusive mother. I figure that he has been redirecting his anger (at this mother/ parents) to.. you. It often happens that people re-direct their anger this way. You therefore didn’t cause his anger but unfortunately, you are the recipient of his anger.

“Do you think writing negative words, and negative feeling would help me.  If you could give me any advice, I’d appreciate it“- it might help you,  so why not give it a try: pour all your feelings here, in your next post/s. I will read and reply.

“I’m very sorry I’m writing so negatively today.  No one wants to hear negative stories or negative words“- call me crazy, but I do want to read about your negative (and positive) stories, so please do share!

anita