Dear Janus:

The link is working, I’ll fill it in myself, at least partly. 1st page: my name is anita, and this is MY new gender workbook. 2nd page: This page intentionally left blank… 7th page: This page intentionally left blank… 9th page: “Most everyone goes through their life without paying much attention to their gender(s). Yes, you have more than one of them. Everyone does. This chapter is filled with drills…”. Page 10: “Gender as man-and-woman- only and sexuality as homo-and-hetero-only are so last century..”… Page 23: “This is a practical quiz that will hopefully help you find out more about yourself. There are no right or wrong answers. Just take your time and check off the answers that most nearly match the way you feel about each question. When you’re done, you’ll know your GA—your Gender Aptitude… QUIZ: Your Gender Aptitude Section I: Assumptions Which of the following most accurately describes something that you assume is true about yourself? A. I’m a real man. B. I’m a real woman. C. I’m not a real man or a real woman, but I’d like to be. D. None of the above. I’m something else entirely.   (anita selects D although I wouldn’t say “entirely”)…Give yourself 5 points if you checked A, 3 points if your checked B, 1 point for C, and no points for D. Write your score for this section here: (0 points for me).

Section II: PERCEPTIONS 1. Do you stand up to pee? A. Yup, most of the time. B. No, never. C. Well, I’ve tried it a few times. D. It all depends on the effect I want to create. (anita refuses to answer, and abandons the quiz).

I just received your long reply, thank you for your way of explaining things (way  better than the author of the workbook above, if I may say so). If T’s father will express interest, I will be glad to copy your information and suggestions for him, or otherwise incorporate the information and suggestions when I talk with him. I also read your answer to my question, thank you!

anita