Dear Addy:

“So why putting everything on past childhood traumas to heal instead of trying to recognize our selves now in the present and try to find solution based on the present moment?“- do both, not one or the other; not one instead of the other. Childhood emotional trauma does not go away by itself. Healing needs to be done. Healing includes attending to the present moment: mindfulness (attending to the present moment) is a huge factor in healing. Again, it is both, not one or the other.

But if you believe that you do not need healing from a difficult childhood, and that you can evolve into the person you want to become without looking into your past, please proceed to do so (haven’t you tried already?), and let me/ us know how it works for you!

anita