Thank you, Anita.

He grew up abusive mother (toxic mother) and I think they are very similar.  When they are happy, they are in so good mood but if not, everything is upside down.  His kids may have been abused by them but they may not understand much yet.  Do not know.  I have 5 years to realize that this is emotional and verbal abuse.
DEA, I do not know yet.  Thinking.
I blocked all his family, and friends so they cannot contact me.  I forgot to block him but block his email.  I won’t answer any ID calls and unknown numbers.  I do not want to be near him anymore from yesterday.
He complain about my vinyl return because he paid for firewood, stove, etc, and complain when I took hangers (for clothes).  Oh, I return all hangers when I dropped off his last belongings/my gifts.  He makes great money, more than doubles my salary but the end of a relationship is all about money.  He kept saying that firewoods, fire stoves, and built fences cost.  I asked him how much but he did not answer.  Only if he sends me an invoice then I will send my check, the last contact but I hope not.  I did not take any of my gifts back. So cheap and pitiful.