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Kaya
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Good morning, Anita.

Happy Thanksgiving.

I went to my therapist yesterday.  He was so happy that I picked up all my belongings.  He said my ex wanted to hold my belongings = wanted to control you even after the breakup.  He was mad because I picked up all.
After I read your message and I did not realize how much effect my child’s days.
So, I talked to my therapist about my child’s days and we will start to work on it.
Also, I do not have any anger or disappointment or any negative feeling toward him much as before.
I won’t say good luck or wish you a happy life, be honest I do not feel the way at all!
But after I was speaking therapist about him, my therapist thinks he has controlling issues and anger issues with his mother.
This relationship failed because both had an issue and we did not work it together.

Except this, I’m so sad my friend and sister believed my ex but, I cannot control what they believe or not.  I just let them go too.  I must be tired of my mind and if something is so complicated, I just wanted to let it go.
Is this wrong?  Should I deal with each problem?

Thank you for your support always.