Dear anita,

you should think way less about ideas to make her more comfortable: limit your thinking (if you can). Your overthinking (on any topic!) is hurting you and it will hurt her too, sooner or later

= well she is not an overthinking type of person, she tends to do everything by going with the flow….

Also she told me that if her parents “disagree” after meeting her “boyfriend”…. She said she’ll listen to them…. After hearing this i feel pressure and i hope i can impress her parents and can connect well with her family…. I really really hope so…. As this is gonna be a first time experience for me….

so being so afraid that she will leave you, you are at your best behavior: keeping your disappointment and anger to yourself, showing her how much you cherish her best you can…

I am worried that once you feel safer around her, you will then express your disappointments and anger (based on this or that misinterpretation of her words) and.. forget about cherishing her.

= im pretty sure i’ll keep cherishing her…. Because i’ve been waiting for a girl like her for lots of years, i dont want to waste a person this precious…..

As for the disappointment issue, maybe its quite hard… but i’ll try to control it….. it’s due to my overthinking as i keep imagining future events that can cause disappointments…..

no, because your fears are based on a series of future events that may not happen

= even in the LDR case? Like my mind listed it as one of the worries, seeking quick relief?

Like there is a possibility of it, but right now we’re not in LDR…. after meeting her several times, now i know LDR is very hard, even not meeting her for a few days, and i already miss her so bad…..

yes, let it go for now- if you can. Think about it again later,  if (and after) the events I referred in the #1, 2, 3 and 4, above happen.. if they happen.

= thank you for the advice!