Dear Anita

yes , it does make sense , i believe my mom and most likely yours too , were afraid that if we socialize with more successful people or people in general we gonna abandon them and it was scarier than intimidation for them  if im isolated it is more likely to be dependent to someone and gonna ignore their flaws and most likely to idolize them as i remember you told about the experience you had with your mom in front of your friend. she wasnt happy about you having friends . successful people can easily recognize unsuccessful people , i mean usually 2 people who are not particularly doing good in their life cant say or realize the another one is not doing well , they cant even realize about themselves .

i remember all these LOSERS beside my mom , wanted me to be isolated , it was the ultimate goal

i`m struggling to describe my point of view in second language here , i hope you understand what i mean

To separate and isolate a highly social individual animal, such as a human, is the same as breaking him or her. thats true but i dont feel comfortable about it , that`s not a life sentence , is it?and did you have the same experience with people too , i mean your surrounding in general , do you feel intimidated like me ?

Farnaz