Anita,

I will wait for your response on Wednesday morning. I will to give myself some time as it is exhausting writing and thinking about this. I just wanted to say that here:

“My first thought – better to close this thread. However, it does not bother me writing here, but it is also okay for me to close it“- if you feel a significant preference to closing this thread, you are welcome to do so anytime.

, I meant also what you wrote at the beginning of this conversation, paraphrasing, that it may be exhausting for you too, to talk about some topics. I worry about this so please let me know if this is not comfortable for you.

I have one question:

in seven years and six months of daily participation on these forums, I came across one member with a severely BPD mother (norit is her screen name) and one member with a combination of BPD and PPD, and that is you.

you mean my mother, right? Sorry, if it’s silly question, it sounded like it was me, I assume just my understanding.

Again, Joanna, thank you for writing back to me.

Anita, I am also thankful to you for writing back.

Take care.