Dear Anita

the sentiment.. from a mother, it is too vulgar, too wrong. I never brought it up to her, never asked her about these words. I don’t quite understand. May i say ?this was disturbing. how she even see about situation  this way ?and she dared to say that ?

i dont understand it either , i dont know what to say .

maybe that s good you dont understand it .

what is rather interesting for me is that although their image is very important for them , how we their children see them couldnt be less valuable . they didnt hold back hurting us , i believe first they didn`t see as human and second we were their hostage , we had no choice , this is maddening .

I never shared this here. And in my mind, you will not want to talk to me anymore because of these words . thank you  very much for sharing it to me , i`m not sure the last part though?

far