Hi Tee,

It could be. I’m still the only woman that he treats this way and we do a lot of the same things. I have it easier being with someone i don’t have feelings for because they can’t hurt me the same way. Like i been doing hook ups (never went the whole way) with men at it felt easy, then with the guy i was with earlier last year i paniced i knew that he was the right person to go all the way with but my body just froze and worked against me. It’s not logically making sense.

Well people called him a player because he would get super drunk and then fool around with women only to not want more from them but players don’t need alcohol to bewuth women. My colleague who just told that he and that girl are a thing goes out with him and x and y and she says he is charming and flirts around. Like her behaviour today gave it away but he was treating her the same way he acts around any other women, No nerves or anything. She was asking him to join us but he want to (the day he briefly looked at me and nodded) and last friday when she was asking him to go to the pub he said yeah alright i’ll message you, No emotions, but apparently the did get really drunk and flirting at the Christmas party. She’s lovely i like her but she’s only 21 and a bit more young and naiv.

Iyou are right. I take on too much resposibility for other people emotions and him being weird around me and if they are gonna be a couple then he should talk to me like a friend.