Hi all,

Just to further add to this, we start our couples counselling sessions tonight which I am a little worried about if I am honest. Having spent the best part of 2 weeks on the sofa my feelings are still the same, although I totally understand her position. It seems counselling is really the last and final thing we can try before starting the official process of separation / divorce.

Kills me to even write these words but I am realistic about the limitations and lack of connection we have.

I wanted to seek your advice on the text that sent her yesterday and I will take on board any feedback you can share

“So just wanted to share something with you… I would do anything to make our relationship work and it hurts to be where we are.

I’m very aware our communication and way we generally interact are not great.

I am very much looking forward to speaking more in depth with someone who is impartial and hopefully we can more clearly understand each other before we decide to work together to repair or go our separate ways.

Regardless of which way we go I just wanted you to know that I am here for you. I would love to move forward and repair what we have not for the sake of the children but for us and what we have the potential to be as a couple. If not I will cherish fantastic memories that will live forever in my heart and with our beautiful children.

I don’t need you to reply or say anything just know where I am…”

I will revert following our session with a couples therapist. As always very much appreciate any thoughts and advice!