Hey Tee,

I suppose my friends would be classed as frenimies, they were friends until it suited and yes there would be name calling or ridicule, they were the type of friends who built them selves up by knocking someone else down.

I’m not sure what the best play in terms of my partner is, I miss her and wish I had handled things differently from the get go and avoided this messy on off situation. Family say I should leave it and move on but they aren’t in it I guess. If she opened up about her child I think it would be a big step. I just worry the damage is done to the relationship and we couldn’t repair. I don’t know whether to reach out to her or not as I don’t want cause either of us anymore hurt, but at the same time am I throwing something good away.